Losing a loved one can be devastating. It can also be an opportunity to uncover personal strength. Losing a beloved pet can have the same effect, without the understanding and empathy of those around you.
As pet guardians, we are expected to move through grieving a pet at a much faster, and more quiet, pace. When Chocolate Chip passed away I had friends and family who understood and supported my need to grieve. But, there were just as many friends and family who were impatient, annoyed and relentless. I wish I had known and understood the 7 Stages of Grief so I could have handled those relationships better.
There are several resources for grieving pet guardians ranging from local to online. It's important for those who were especially close to a pet to experience all stages of grief and allow themselves to live through their healing. It's best to rely on professionals to assist if you are having too much difficulty. University of Tennessee has a Pet Loss Support Program which is a collaboration between the Colleges of Veterinary Medicine and Social Work.
Online resources provide opportunities to share experiences and feelings with others who have gone through a similar loss or are experiencing it today. The Pet Loss Grief Support website shares the Story of Rainbow Bridge, Memorials and Chat Rooms, among other resources.
To find help in your own area, you can google "pet loss support" - you'll be amazed at the long list of resources that exist to help you. And, if you'd like to honor your own beloved pet or a special friend's, you can post a memorial on Brown Dog's website. Take a look at our Memorials.
No comments:
Post a Comment